fairness

Is it fair for parents to chose the one you love? i mean im married im just talking about in gemeral. its sad i mean why cant they all just agree. all parents want their child to have the best life. and i think if they see there childerns happy they should just leave it at that . and if they arent happy help and comfort them in all the ways that they can. some parents do. some sit there and critize all day long. idk sometimes ii feel like my parents are those types. but i know they love each and everyone of us though sometimes its hard to tell when you both dont agree. but i tink all parents should hear there childern let them learn from there own mistakes. life is life you learn and you live.sometimes its okay to speak out loud and tell your childerns when there totally going over board. but then at the same time you can only say so much.